Ding Dong, the Ex is Gone
He moved. Out of state. Last weekend. Didn’t tell me. Found out from a mutual friend about an hour ago. Didn’t inform the court either, to my knowledge. Taking with him a car to which I still hold the title and a spare set of keys. Apparently he’s gotten a job and a place to live.
Is it strange that the only part of this news that really pisses me off is that he chooses now to finally start acting like a grown up? Maybe that should be my #8 in my previous post below.
I’m also somewhat annoyed that he gets to start completely over fresh with no baggage while I’m left to clean up the mess left behind. But that is nothing new, so I’m sort of accustomed to that. It still stings.
But at least it means he’s just that much further removed from my life, which enables me to move on that much more. So in a somewhat twisted way, I’m grateful. I’m free.
Solarisgal said,
December 7, 2007 at 9:45 pm
I know the feeling. My husband left me with thousands of dollars of debt. Moved out completely debt free – bought a car with his girlfriend and moved to a better section of the city….
Meanwhile, i had to struggle to get money out of a bank to hire a lawyer, since he hired one to go against me. What an ass.
But I say this – let those assholes go. I believe in Karma.
shatteredlife said,
December 9, 2007 at 2:25 am
I don’t believe in Karma. But I do believe in holding onto my integrity. Even if it’s all I have.